Motherhood becomes Charlize Theron

Only In HollywoodBy: Ruben V. Nepales
Philippine Daily Inquirer

May 27, 2012 | 6:42 pm

CHARLIZE as the evil queen in Snow White and the Huntsman

LOS ANGELESShe calls her son an ahole. Thats the headline, said Charlize Theron, who was at her funniest during a recent interview at the Arundel Castle in West Sussex, United Kingdom.

She adopted a baby boy, Jackson, last March. Being a brand-new mom seems to have brought out Charlizes sardonic humor in full force.

Like a sailor

The actress, who stars as the evil queen in Snow White and the Huntsman, was fondly described by the films producer, Joe Roth, in an earlier interview as a beauty who talks like a sailor. Asked if shes more careful with her language now that she has a baby around, Charlizewho won an Oscar and Golden Globe best actress award in 2003 for Monsterbegan her answer by citing Go the F**k to Sleep, the best-selling childrens book for adults.

She said of the book written by Adam Mansbach and illustrated by Ricardo Cortes: I had not heard of this book but, for some reason, my friends decided to send a copy to me. I love this book [now] because Im not a very earnest person. I love that my son thinks Im the funniest thing ever. Right now, he doesnt know the difference. I will have to clean up my house of language. But as of right now, I love to read this book to him. I can look at him and call him my! little ahole and he thinks that I love him.

She added, I know that in a year, Im not going to be able to do that so Im going to enjoy that now. My mom and I are very much aware of it We catch each other all day. Were like, We cant do that anymore. Stop saying that.

Delightfully loose

Said Charlize of Mansbach: But I do love that this writer realized that a lot of parents like me do that (utter profanities), wrote a book, and its one of the best I read it to myself at night.

Asked what kind of mom she is, Charlize deadpanned: I just give him some nails to play with. She was on a roll now. We had never seen her this delightfully loose, in a joking mood throughout the exchange. Once in a while, I give him a saucer of milk and hopefully, he will be able to feed himself. I hope it goes well. Is that okay? Is that what you do with babies?

Chuckling again, she reflected on her zany answers: You are making me sound like the worst parent ever. You will write these stories and sarcasm does not travel well. Everybody thinks Im a serious actress and theyre going to take these things very seriously

But she pointed out that adoption had always been on her mind. Ive always wanted to have kids, she said. Always. Even if I was in a relationship or if I had children of my own, I always knew that I wanted to go this route. So this wasnt like a last resort for me or anything like that.

Charlize continued: Theres a lot of time and effort that go into adoption, so its not like you wake up one morning and by 4 p.m., you have a baby. It doesnt happen that way. I knew it would take some time.

She is obviously enamored with her son, whom she described as a little slice of heaven on toast.

Charlize found it amazing that she needs little sleep these days. Thats probably the biggest surprise because I used to be a lover of sleep. This little boy has made me realize that I actually dont need much sleep. He just revitalizes you You sleep for three hours but theres this ! exciteme nt in your house. Theres energy, love and this little face. Its just like 40 coffees and 20 hours of sleep, in a way, when you look into that little face Im really impressed with how well I actually function [on little sleep].

Even in sleep

The 36-year-old actress, who is very close to her mother

Gerda Theron, noted: My mom took a photo of me sleeping on the plane while Im holding a bottle for him. I didnt know she was taking the photo. I looked at it and went, Wow, look at the angle of that bottle. I do that even in my sleep? I was very impressed with my skills.

Admitting that she worries like every other mother about whether Ill do it all right,

Charlize said: You know that I have a very close relationship with my mother. She is the ultimate grandmother. I am not doing this alone. Its incredible to have someone like her. She said that she also has the support of friends who are moms, too.

She continued to heap praise on Gerda, with whom she shares a turbulent past in her native South Africa (Gerda reportedly suffered abuse at the hands of her husband, Charles Theron). Being a mother has made her even closer to Gerda. Its just so strange, Charlize pointed out. I was talking to a friend about this the other day. She has a very close relationship with her mother, too. I was like, its so weird, I like my mother so much more. I didnt know it was possible.

She quipped: My friend was like, I want to marry my mother. Its just this strange thing that happens that you cant explain. Im incredibly happy. She said she feels like wanting to invite everybody on my cloud because this cloud I am floating on is so huge right now. Theres room for everybody thats such a blessing.

Suzy Homemaker

The statuesque beauty, who always stuns observers on the red carpet, enjoys being away from show biz and doing chores at home instead. Ive always been a Suzy Homemaker, she revealed. I love cleaning and cooking. Some people even think Im obsessi! ve and c ompulsive about it. But I love that stuff. I like doing my laundry. I like vacuuming Ive never been a little princess about that stuff. Thats actually very therapeutic for me.

In director Rupert Sanders take on the Snow White fairy tale, Charlize suffuses her evil queen with humanity. She admired her costar Kristen Stewarts work ethic and attitude. I have such a crush on that girl, she said. I really do. Talent is one thing but I think, in this business, there are a lot of talented people. Ive never thought like, Oh my God, I am so much more talented. It really is about opportunities that are given to you and what you do with those opportunities.

About Kristen, she added: This is a girl who had massive amounts of success at a very young age. I wouldnt have even known what I would have done at her age with any of that stuff. She could very easily

just kind of lay back now, realize that she does have a huge fan base, and not want to do anything about it, and that those are the things that are valuable.

Tenacity, moxie

AT THE castle grounds. She is described as the beauty who talks like a sailor. RUBEN NEPALES

But the truth of the matter is that she actually loves being an actress. She really loves acting. You cant fake that. Theres a tenacity and a moxie about her. She shows up ready. Shes ready to spar and shes excited about pushing the envelope and trying sh-t. Shes alive. Its like watching someone whos alive and exactly in the nature of what she should be.

Playing the queen who gets to utter the famous words about whos the fairest of them all, Charlize said of her own relationship with the mirror: I dont know one person who doesnt have a conflicted rela! tionship with the mirror. I think were all the same when it comes to that. Some days are better than others. It just depends on the night before or the day ahead. I am just like everybody else. I feel really lucky that I was raised by parents who never felt that my value or successes were going to be based on what I looked like. That somehow helped me in my life. I dont know what I would have been like if I wasnt raised that way. So I dont get too hung up on that.

On her way down the castles stairs, Charlize had to slow down midway because Kristen was changing from stilettos into comfortable Converse shoes. Without missing a beat,Charlize jokingly complained, aloud: Christ, is Kristen Stewart holding us up again?

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